Single Girl Probs

Okay so this post is based on numerous experiences I've had over the years!  So here goes!

Part One: Skank Girls
The beat of the country music makes me want to stomp my boots and be twirled around.  I spot an attractive man across the room I've seen here before.  I meet his eye and smile, hoping to encourage him to come ask me to dance.  A few seconds later, he starts coming my way.  Yes!  Maybe it worked!  But out of the corner of my eye, I see a girl in short shorts, a tank top, and cowgirl boots that are definitely not legit making her way across the floor.  The attractive guy spots her as well and the next thing you know they're dancing around the room and I'm still standing on the side - by myself - and not dancing!  Intercepted!  By skank girl.

That's what my friends and I call the girls at country swing dance night that always get asked to dance.  Men just like scantily clad, overly made up girls!  Come on country boys!  You know they're not going to work hard or do much for you other than look pretty!  I mean, let's get real, girls like that are way too high maintenance!

These skank girls also get in our way every time we try to do line dances!  They come stand right by us.  There is definitely a certain amount of space you need to do some line dances and these girls just don't get that!  Half the time they don't know what they're doing so they give what they think are sexy booty shakes.  And they just look hilarious!  They think they're so hot...well, I guess the men do too... but seriously, I just laugh every time!

But that's just coming from me - a country girl who would rather be out shooting guns or four wheeling than going to a movie or getting my nails done!  And I don't know how to be super hot for the life of me!  I have too many other things to worry about than to worry about catching a shallow man only looking for a hot girlfriend with no substance!

Part Two: Men Who Think They Can String You Along
 Okay, so what is with men who think they can lead us on?  One second they're all friendly and wanting to spend time with you.  And then the next, they're completely ignoring you!  Or flirting with other girls in front of you!

One week:  Date, call, call, text, text, handholding, etc.  Next week:  Nothing.  The next week: Call, call, text, date, hang out, etc.  Next month: Nothing.  Next week: Text, text, call, date, cuddling, etc.  What?!

I mean, these guys drive me crazy!  What the heck do you want mate?!  You either want to date us or you don't!  So make up your mind!  Don't play around with my or my friends' emotions hey?!  We're people too!  Either pursue us or leave us alone!  Are you interested or not?!  Just when we start to get over you, you come back with something nice to give us hope that something might work out!  It's like they think they can leave us on the back burner when they're checking out other girls.  If that doesn't work out, they come back around! 

But the dumb thing is that sometimes we let them put us on the back burner.  Maybe we as girls think that nobody else will come along.  But I have decided that I would much rather be alone than be somebody's second choice.  Dating games are dumb!  I am making a goal to be more straight up about what I'm thinking!  Yep!

So there's my little rant for the week.  But being single really isn't all that bad!  A couple of my friends and I have just been talking about dating recently and so there are the thoughts that we've come up with! :)

*Good Song: Little Talks by Of Monsters and Men